Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Is Parenthood is a Punishment?

Do we remember the days before the kids?
Do we remember the romance that filed the air when we and our partner went out had fun and made wonderful things together?

Let's take a moment, close our eyes and try to imagine that...

Now let's come back to the reality!

What do we see now?

Boring routine! We wake up at mornings, prepare our kids to the school, and go to the job for about 10 hours! We come back tired and just waiting for the moment when we will close our eyes and fall a sleep. It sounds horrible but that's the routine of the most of the parents.

I think we don't have to live like that! We are not accused in the court for a miserable life. We, as parents, don't have to live like that!

First, we have to plan our evenings so we could enjoy our time at home. As I mentioned in the previous articles, planning evening activities for the all family will give us a "moral approval" to make something only for us, for the parents.

Second, we have to plan our (parents) activities too. We are already not that young couple that we used to be. We are not as spontaneous as we were. That's why we must plan what we will do when we will free for ourselves. Otherwise, this free time would lost.

Start from planning a week ahead. Think of activities you will do with your kids. Than try to find a babysitter for the Friday and just go out. Enjoy yourself and you would find out how amazing it could be. Even the process of planning the week can be very interesting...

Try it once, and you couldn't stop doing it every week...

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